Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence

If you are in a violent or abusive relationship you must plan your separation before you leave home. Equal Exes Online will guide you through your choices.

What is your situation now?

1I am getting emotionally and / or physically abused and I want to leave now.

2 I may be getting a lot of verbal abuse and I’m not sure what to do.

3 I once got hit and I am unsure whether this will occur again.

4 I am scared for my life and for my children’s lives.

You need to do some careful thinking, regardless of which of these situations you are in.  Equal Exes Online will help guide your decisions so you make the right choice for you and the children

Take our Domestic Violence Quiz

This will help you to work out how strongly you feel about the relationship and acting in the best interests for your future.  Based on your answers, it will make suggestions about things you can do. 

What is your situation now?

Read a case study

Raj and Melinda have been married for 9 years and have three children. Raj is feeling worthless and under-confident because Melinda tells him that he is not a good father and she’s earning all the money and he feels she can call the shots because of this…

Bronwyn has been with her husband for 15 years and they have three children living at home. She finds that when she meets her friends or goes shopping she has to wear long sleeves to hide her bruises…

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I want more help

Move forward in your decision making with our Domestic Violence Workbook.

In this self-guided book we coach you through the issues and decisions you need to make. You will work at your own pace, and can edit and review your answers carefully so that at the end you are clearer about what choices are available to you and what your next steps can be.

The chapters include:

1 What is domestic violence.

2 How to write a safety plan.

3 Emotional versus physical violence.

4 How to get help.

5 Where to get help.

Expert Advisors

Equal Exes Online works with a group of paid expert advisors who have strong track records in helping you address the issues and situations that arise during divorce and separation. Each has a different specialisation, area of expertise and different charging rates. One size does not fit all so we have collated this group of experts to help you find the best person for you who will give you the best advice.