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New Beginnings

When you are ready to move on, changing your thoughts and behaviours so history does not repeat will help your future happiness. Equal Exes Online will guide you through your choices so your future takes a better path.

What is your situation now?

1 I need to move from my old life to my new life.

2 I’m stuck and keep talking and thinking about the past and what could have been.

3 I am frightened about having to get a job or set up a business. It’s been years since I worked.

4 I have got some ideas about my life but I don’t know how to change behaviours from my past or avoid mistakes I know I made.

5 How do I financially look after myself and my responsibilities in the future?

6 I am nervous about dating. It seems so different from when I last dated.

7 I know I’m rushing into dating - how do I know if it is too soon?

You need to do some careful thinking, regardless of which of these situations you are in.  Equal Exes Online will help guide your decisions so you make the right choice for you.

Take our New Beginnings Quiz

This will help you to work out where you’re going in the future and what sort of career and life you want to lead.  Based on your answers, we will make suggestions about things you can do. 

What is your situation now?

Read a case study

Kylie feels all she does is keep going on and on about her story of divorce and feels that she cant’t even see a life in which she sets aside her emotions and let go of what “could have been”.  She has not dated since she was a teenager. She would like to meet someone but is afraid of all the horror stories she hears. She is not sure when the right time to date even is.  Her ex managed their money and now Kyle finds she has to make decisions about work or career and cannot manage money so she has enough to live on.  She doesn’t want to repeat the mistakes of the past- or get stuck there, reliving old stories.

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I want more help

Move forward in your decision making with our New Beginnings Workbook.

In this self-guided book we coach you through the issues and choices you need to make.  You will work at your own pace and can edit and review your answers carefully so that at the end you are clearer about what choices are available to you and what your next steps can be.

The chapters include:

1 Moving from your old life to your new life.

2 How to let go.

3 Finance and you as a single person.

4 Your new career, job or business.

5 Dating and finding the right new partner.

6 What to avoid in the dating game.

Expert Advisors

Equal Exes Online works with a group of paid expert advisors who have strong track records in helping you address the issues and situations that arise during divorce and separation. Each has a different specialisation, area of expertise and different charging rates. One size does not fit all so we have collated this group of experts to help you find the best person for you who will give you the best advice.