This ebook will guide you through this incredibly difficult process, to help you take back control of your life. It focuses on divorce/separation, domestic violence and dollars when it comes to separation. If you find yourself in this unfortunate, yet common situation, it is imperative that you know about the pros and cons of separation. Sadly we know from experience that a number of you are victims of violence and abusive relationships – it doesn’t matter who are you, where you live or how well off you are. When you are in this sort of relationship you may feel like you are to blame for the problems. We can assure you that you are not. Deciding to separate is a big decision and the ripples will flow on for quite some time. But if you have exhausted all the possibilities of staying together and separating is the best option for you then there are the five key things you need to do. Read on for more.