Should I stay or should I go

Should I stay or Should I go?

Only you can make this decision and it’s an emotional rollercoaster.  Evaluate what’s best for you moving forward.  Equal Exes Online will guide you through your choices about whether to stay or leave a relationship.

What is your situation now?

1 I have definitely decided to end this relationship.

2 I just can’t decide - some days it’s OK to stay and other days I want to leave.

3 I am at a really early stage because things are not great, but I’m surviving.

4 I have found someone else I would rather be with but haven’t made up my mind.

You need to do some careful thinking, regardless of which of these situations you are in.  Equal Exes Online will help guide your decisions so you make the right choice for you.

Take our Separation Quiz

This will help you to work  out how strongly you feel about separating or staying in the relationship. Based on your answers, it will make suggestions about things you can do. 

What is your situation now?

Read a case study

Lucy and Charles have been together for five years. Money was the main dispute area, she wanted to spend money on things and he resisted. This wasn’t helped because he earns a lot more than she does. Their arguments became more regular and the joint bank account became a battleground…

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I want more help

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Move forward in your decision making with our “Should I Stay or Should I Go?” Workbook.

In this self-guided workbook we coach you through the issues and choices you need to make.  You will work at your own pace and can edit and review your answers carefully so that at the end you are clearer about what choices are available to you and what your next steps can be.

The chapters include:

1 Is separation right for me?

2 It takes time to decide

3 The primary concerns

4 What trade-offs are there that matter?

5 Different concerns at different ages (35-55 and over 55 years old)

Expert Advisors

Equal Exes Online works with a group of paid expert advisors who have strong track records in helping you address the issues and situations that arise during divorce and separation. Each has a different specialisation, area of expertise and different charging rates. One size does not fit all so we have collated this group of experts to help you find the best person for you who will give you the best advice.